10 things women want to know about menopause

10 things women want to know about menopause

Experts on menopause reveal their answers to the questions most asked about "The Change."
Updated:
2009-10-02 22:58
Published:
2008-07-31 00:00
By 
Mary Malone

Hormone replacement therapy, natural treatments and more about menopause

6. What about HRT? Is it safe for anyone?
Since 2002, several studies linking HRT to higher rates of cancer, heart disease and stroke caused women to abandon HRT at record speed.

While 16 million HRT prescriptions were written in the U.S. in 2001, those numbers sank to six million in 2006, as new research linked HRT to increased rates of breast and uterine cancer, stroke and, possibly, heart disease (research on heart risks is inconclusive).

Drug companies and independent researchers continue to reanalyze the risks and benefits, but the Society of Obstetricians and Gynecologists of Canada now recommends that HRT should be prescribed only for a short time, and only for women with moderate to severe symptoms.

7. So what's severe enough to merit HRT?
If you wake up four times a night and stumble through work the next day, and this goes on for months, then, “it's important to get some relief, so you can function,” says Sherwin.

Ross describes patients who are “melting away on the floor in front of me from the hot flashes,” but who are frightened by the negative findings on HRT. “Those who say ‘no hormones' are really desperate to find out what else they can use. They say ‘I can't sleep. I can't concentrate. What can I do?'”

The truth is that HRT is still the most effective way to reduce hot flashes, which will result in more sleep, less fatigue and a sunnier disposition. A low dose, for a short time (one to five years), works for women who really need relief, and who have no other medical conditions or history that would advise against HRT.

8. What about herbal remedies, special diets and other “natural” alternatives?
In the FMWC study, a whopping 97 per cent of doctors and 69 per cent of patients wanted proven nonhormonal therapies. Millions of women are eager for new, nonhormonal ways to ease menopausal symptoms, and drug and natural supplement companies are eager to accommodate them.

Meanwhile, Ross reports that most of her patients “have been to the health food store before they come to me. Some tell me black cohosh or evening primrose was helpful. Others say they've tried everything, and nothing did anything. Basically, there is no evidence that any [nonprescription alternatives] help, and we're not sure how safe they are.”

A quick Internet search will turn up a bewildering variety of alleged menopause remedies described as natural, herbal, complementary and/or alternative, as well as so-called “bio-identical hormones,” and phytoestrogens and isoflavones (based on plant estrogens mostly from soy). But buyer, beware: Dosages are inconsistent; few randomized, scientific studies have been done on efficacy and long-term safety, and they can have serious side-effects when taken in large amounts or interact with prescription drugs.
“Don't waste your money” is the blunt recommendation from Sherwin, who points out that, despite repeated studies, “none of the ‘natural' alternatives have ever done better than placebo.”

9. Will menopause make my sex life suffer?
Some women worry about lower libido, but an equal number feel sexier after menopause. Not having to worry about periods, pregnancy and birth control can be a huge relief.

Reduced libido and vaginal dryness are also part of normal aging. Special vaginal creams can help add temporary lubrication. Ask a pharmacist about the nonprescription creams. For more severe vaginal dryness, hormone-based prescription topical creams, tablets or vaginal rings may be helpful.

10. What does help?
The diet secrets for an easier menopause are easy to find in Canada's Food Guide: drink alcohol moderately, and choose more plant-based, lower-fat foods that are high in fibre. If you eat few milk products, consider calcium and vitamin D supplements. Do weight-bearing exercises and go for walks to improve bone health. (Exercising outside will give your mental health a lift, too.)

When the hot flashes hit, go for low-tech solutions: dress in layers, use a fan and reach for a cold drink. To fight off age-related weight gain, eat moderately throughout the day (don't skip meals -- you'll feel tired and moody) and exercise more (at least half an hour every day).



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  • cheryl wrote:

    Aug 05, 2008

    2009-09-22 10:50 AM

    Menopause is the final kick in the pants for me. I have been single for the majority of my life ( except for brief periods that were even more stress laden than being single), experienced the glass ceiling at work, and watched as my always ample body has become positively rotund. Then menopause decended upon me like the fires of hades engulfing my thighs. There is no describing how demoralizing life becimes when you realize that it only gets wrose from her on in. Life truly plays cruel tricks- especially after 50!
  • Lorraine Ward wrote:

    Aug 18, 2008

    2009-11-18 2:59 PM

    my worst menopause symptom has been migraines. They come regularly with my period and can be quite debilitating. With the help of my Doctor, she recommended that I try Feverfew. It has really helped. The headaches are not so difficult and quite manageable.
  • Dini Petty wrote:

    Aug 13, 2008

    2009-11-18 2:59 PM

    It's hard to say which was my worst menopause symptom: the 10 to 15 hot flashes every day, the waking up 2 to 3 times a night, pajamas soaked with a pool of water on my breast bone you could stick your finger in or was it the mood swings, urinary urgency , zero libido ,internal dryness so bad sex was painful or was it lying on the floor in tears because I had lost it. I went back on HRT because nothing worked for me and then my friend and medical herbalist suggested Nutrafem and I've been on it and off HRT for three years now and all problems handled. Its an old story but I now own part of the company that brings Nutrafem.ca into Canada it saved my life and has done so for many others.
  • FEMI wrote:

    Sep 15, 2008

    2009-11-18 2:59 PM

    ACTUALLY ,MOST OF THE WOMEN IN MY FAMILY DIED OF BREAST OR CERVICAL CANCER AT THE 'PAUSE BY 50.. Im still here, at 55,no night sweats,etc, but my veins and bones ache and Ive just been DX w/ cervical polyps..;( ..
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