10 free, lasting Valentine's Day gifts

10 free, lasting Valentine's Day gifts gifts 6-10

6. Affection
Showing your partner affection helps keep your passion and love alive. In particular, don't underestimate the power of touch. Give your sweetheart the gift of hand-holding, long hugs or tender kisses. What better time to reach out than Valentine's Day?

7. Effort
Going to the trouble to do something special for your partner speaks volumes. Effort makes your partner feel special, cared for, and valued. And it doesn't have to involve anything big or expensive. Make dinner reservations ahead of time or pick up a little something you know your partner would enjoy. I recently bought my husband a DVD of The Simpsons. He was touched not just because he liked the DVD, but because I remembered that he loves The Simpsons and thought of him while I was shopping that day.

8. Romance
Romance doesn't have to involve the usual flowers, chocolates or jewelry. Rather, romance can be simple, thoughtful gestures that are part of your everyday life and reflect who you are as a couple. Making a meal, cleaning up for your partner, or drawing him or her a bath can be lovely gestures of love and care. Do something thoughtful for your partner this Valentine's Day and remember to show appreciation when your partner does something kind for you.

9. Communication
Silence can easily be mistaken for indifference so don't let your feelings go unspoken and unheard. Tell your partner how you feel about him or her, write a love letter, or leave a surprise note on the kitchen counter.

10. Three little words
"I love you." Say it, show it, feel it. It's a simple but powerful way to show your partner you really care.

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