10 ways to be kind online

10 ways to be kind online

Spread your goodwill with sites that inspire you to be good to others -- and to yourself.
Updated:
2009-10-08 17:27
Published:
2006-10-11 00:00
By 
Jennifer D. Foster

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There's nothing quite like a little kindness to get you through the day. Spreading goodwill can create positive change not only in your community, but also around the world. Need a little inspiration? Here are 10 ways to practise virtual altruism -- and get in the spirit of giving.

1. Donate points
Got tons of club points and not sure what to do with them? Donate -- and feel great. Many companies, such as Shoppers Drug Mart, Sears and HBC let you donate points online -- quickly, simply and securely. You choose which charity your points will benefit, and some companies will even match your contribution by converting points to cash. Some will also issue a tax receipt.

2. Practise e-mail etiquette
"Many of us use the fact that we're busy and stressed as an excuse to be lazy when it comes to online courtesy," says Lewena Bayer, one of Canada's leading etiquette experts. However, she says, digital etiquette is needed now more than ever. "E-mail is, quite often, the initial contact we have," she says. "We're sending a first impression."

According to Bayer, online etiquette is "all about showing care and consideration for the recipient." So keep your e-mails succinct, use proper grammar and sentence structure and include an honest subject line.

Nancy Flynn, executive director of the ePolicy Institute (an organization that implements employer e-mail, Internet and software policies) in Columbus, Ohio, shares these "netiquette" tips for work-related e-correspondence:
• Don't use e-mail to let off steam -- wait a day before sending a potentially damaging message
• Respect others' time -- don't forward recipes, jokes, ads, health warnings
• If you mistakenly receive someone else's e-mail, be kind by hitting Reply and explaining the mix-up to the sender.

3. Find volunteer opportunities
Want to help others, but don't know how to start? Go digital. Toronto-based editor Aileen Brabazon found her volunteer position on the Internet. "The web is such an incredible resource: it's a quick and simple way to find the right place to volunteer," says Brabazon. After finding a position that required shopping and reading mail for a visually impaired person on www.charityvillage.com, Brabazon used the Internet to learn more about the company she was interested in donating her time to. She then e-mailed the volunteer coordinator and started the volunteer ball rolling. You can do the same by visiting www.volunteer.ca and searching for your local volunteer centre, or check out www.idealist.com or www.charityguide.org for more volunteer opportunities.

4. Donate to your favourite charity
Recently, Torontonian Andrea Seaborn digitally donated money to four of her favourite charities. A virtual donation is "convenient, simple, hassle-free, secure and instant," she says. "It's also very satisfying for anyone who leads a busy life, but still wants to ensure giving is a part of it." Before donating money online, read the site's security claims. You can also look for a small lock icon in the bottom right corner of your screen or an "s" after the "http" in the site's URL. Both indicate that the site uses security features to protect your banking and credit card information against fraud.

5. Help save Mother Earth
You can give landfill sites a break when offloading your wares on www.freecycle.org. The Freecycle Network is an online community of people giving away -- and getting -- free stuff in their hometowns. Membership is free, and a local volunteer moderates each web group. So when you want to find a new home for something, whether it's a couch or golf clubs, send an e-mail and offer it up to members of your local Freecycle group.

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6. Send online cards
E-cards are ideal ways to make someone's day a little brighter, even when you're strapped for time and distance is an issue. Best of all, no stamp is required. Hundreds of e-card sites exist: name the occasion, they've got a card for it. Here are four sites where you can find fabulous, free digital greetings: www.greetingsnecards.com, www.care2.com, www.free-e-cards-online.com and www.123greetings.com.

7. Share your knowledge
Touted as the world's "largest reference website" (there are more than 1.3 million articles in English), www.wikipedia.org is a virtual encyclopedia of free content, written collaboratively by people worldwide. With the exception of a few main-page articles, anyone with Internet access can correct, edit or improve any information on the site, simply by clicking the Edit this page link. So you can take a little time out to share your wisdom with others.

8. Help fund mammograms
By clicking on the Breast Cancer Site, you can help fund free mammograms for working-poor, homeless and uninsured women in the U.S. Toronto food stylist Ettie Shuken has been clicking daily for two years. "If I can make it easier for someone to have a screening by just a click, that's amazing,” she says. The Breast Cancer Site is part of the GreaterGood shopping village, which also offers these “click to give” sites: the Hunger Site, the Child Health Site, the Rainforest Site, the Animal Rescue Site and the Literacy Site.

9. Adopt a pet
Find your dream pet and give it a loving home, all from your computer. The Humane Society of Canada's "pets" page has a listing of adoptable pets, with contact information so you can directly communicate with the pet's current owner. There's also a place to post "lost pet" notices. For another searchable database of animals needing homes, as well as a directory of more than 9,000 animal shelters and adoption centres across North America, visit Pet Finder's website.

10. Be a virtual mentor
Encouragement comes in many forms, even digitally. Torontonian Alison Korn, former two-time world champion rower and former Canadian national team rower, mentors a few up-and-coming rowers online. She answers questions and shares training-camp etiquette and survival tips. “It feels good to help the next generation of rowers by passing on my hard-earned wisdom,” she says. One of Korn's virtual protégées won a world championship. “I'd like to think that, maybe, my tips had some small effect on her progress," she says. "It makes me feel connected, in a very small way, to her success.”

Whether you're donating Shoppers Optimum points, offering up your old piano to a budding musician or adopting an abandoned pet, there are so many ways to enrich the lives of others with just the click of your mouse. And all it takes is a few minutes out of your day to make someone's spirit -- and your own -- soar.

Did you know: There's a World Kindness Day and a World Kindness Week in November. For more information, visit the Random Acts of Kindness Organization's website.

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