5 life-nurturing reasons to enjoy a hobby

5 life-nurturing reasons to enjoy a hobby

Explore the benefits of making time to pursue your interests.
Updated:
2009-10-18 21:10
Published:
2004-10-18 00:00
By 
Lisa Martin

Get a hobby: Tips 1 and 2

Writer Anna Quidlen sums it up nicely: "You cannot be really first-rate at your work if your work is all you are." Most people I know want a life -- a life that includes work but is not completely dominated by it. We want to be fully engaged in, and feel passionate about all aspects of our lives. Yet we often find it difficult to give ourselves permission to pursue our interests -- activities or hobbies -- outside of work and family obligations. Perhaps we think engaging in our hobbies is too self-indulgent or not important and we fail to create adequate space and time for them.

But when you take up a hobby, whether it's training for your first 10K run, singing in a choir or creating funky jewelry in your spare time, you reap the benefits of inspirational self-nurturing. Helping you to find a better balance and more meaning in your life, hobbies make you feel good. Here are five great reasons to stop procrastinating and start that hobby you've been contemplating.

1. To play and feel lighter
Playing means enjoying yourself for more than a minute or two, for the sole purpose of finding pleasure. It's something you do just for you and it makes you feel good physically. Just look at children to remind yourself of the magical powers of play. When kids play you can see, hear and feel their happiness and contentment - it practically vibrates off them. As we grow older, we often lose our playtime to the responsibilities of adulthood - working hard and being productive, striving to make a difference and tending to others. Yet, when you make playing a priority in the form of a hobby, you can face life and work with more enthusiasm and lightness.

2. To become more interesting and interested
Expanding your interests allows you to focus on things outside of your normal routine. Hobbies beat out boredom. There is excitement and challenge in learning how to paint, write short stories or sail. Committing to a hobby, whether it's adventure travelling or joining a book club, will give you something to look forward to and spur you on to achieve greater goals. When you participate in an activity that is engaging, your passion and enthusiasm becomes contagious and makes you more interesting to others.

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  • Marg wrote:

    Mar 31, 2005

    2009-09-22 10:48 AM

    My husband is currently in the process of creating the space I require to do folk art...I started painting in mid '90's and have not indulged in this passion for a 4 yrs ...I am so looking forward again to allowing my creative juices to flow...
  • Lorna wrote:

    Sep 14, 2006

    2009-09-22 10:48 AM

    For Tiashell: You might like to take up something that is easy to be "ongoing". I have a knitting project that I find easy to do....knit squares of the same size in a cotton yarn. Balls of cotton are great to get on sale. Then, when you have enough squares, you can either sew them together - or crochet them together with the crocheted rib at the top. You can make a baby blanket, a child's single bed sized coverlet - whatever you feel adventurous enough to work on...!
  • Shelley wrote:

    Feb 12, 2007

    2009-09-22 10:49 AM

    Life is good...now. I was a single parent raising 2 children through to University for 12 years, working full time; struggling to keep my head above water. What I discovered after I 'burnt out' was this one thing that stared me in the face but I could not see it. We are women first - if we do not take care of ourselves in body, mind and spirit we are not maintaining a healthy relationship with our children or anyone you want to meet and most importantly to ourselves. I stopped, quit my stressful job(which I thought I could not afford to do), sat down and wrote a detailed list of patterns to break to move on to a healthier me. I learned to remove the guilt of being a single parent to my children by saying no to things they do not need and focused on healing myself. It has been a journey. Don't fill your already busy lives with more things - my suggestion is to remove a few, focus on you and you will enjoy living in the here and now.
  • TIASHELL JOHNSON wrote:

    Oct 19, 2004

    2009-09-22 10:49 AM

    I AM A FULL-TIME STUDENT AND HOUSEWIFE AND A MOTHER OF THREE. I WANT TO FIND SOMETHING TO DO IN MY SPARE TIME THAT IS FUN AND PRODUCES RESULTS. WHAT DO YOU SUGGEST?
  • annie wrote:

    May 22, 2007

    2009-09-22 10:49 AM

    hi tiashell, i do martial arts, and recently my mother and little sister have started out as well. i find it to be a fun way to get in shape, and gives you a lot of respect for yourself and your body. plus, you can take your kids with you, and be a team of power ninjas together.
  • Joan wrote:

    May 03, 2005

    2009-09-22 10:50 AM

    I suggest knitting or crochet. I have a 4 year old son, a full time job and attend school part time, and I have been doing both since January. I find knitting very relaxing and you can do it while watching TV. The advantage is that you will love the end products and your kids will too. Have fun knitting away.
  • janice wrote:

    Oct 28, 2004

    2009-09-22 10:51 AM

    I'm a full-time single parent (with no babysitter), full-time homemaker, I work full-time, AND go to school full-time--it's managable. It's nice to read informative articles that can help the situation be easier.
  • Cindy wrote:

    Mar 05, 2007

    2009-09-22 10:51 AM

    I read "full-time mother/student," and I can relate. I completed my entire University education through Distance Education. For three years, my life was all about studying, and I rarely left the house. Tight budget, since I was a single parent living off of Student Loans/Grants. I took up painting. There's always something to paint. An old chair, someone's cast-off end table. Second-hand stores are amazing. I buy old wood serving dishes, or cheap metal/enamel, paint them bright colors (with Craft Paint that sells for $1 at a dollar store), and I give them new life. Taking the time to lose yourself in a hobby is one of the best ways to ward off depression, or that feeling of being isolated and stuck in a rut. Hint: If you use lots of color creatively, you don't have to be particularly talented. I've even managed to make money by selling some of my painting projects to eclectic furniture stores!
  • camille wrote:

    Sep 19, 2005

    2009-09-22 10:52 AM

    I suggest belly dancing. It's fun, it's a great form of exercise and it's a natural endorphin secreter.
  • Frankie wrote:

    Jun 24, 2008

    2009-11-18 2:59 PM

    SPARE time?????
  • Kristin wrote:

    Sep 20, 2005

    2009-11-18 3:00 PM

    Dear Tiashell I am also a full time mother and housewife. I would just like to let you know what my hobbies are. I enjoy crossstitching, gardening, and baking/cooking. I love flowers during the summer. But if you want something that produces results or to have something to hold in your hands and say i made this, i would say take up crosstitching or canning. I enjoy both and they are both something that others can enjoy also. Both are relatively easy to learn and produce wonder results. Also with crosstitch you can made great gifts for others or for your house. Just some suggestions.
  • carole wrote:

    Sep 19, 2005

    2009-11-18 3:01 PM

    I would recommend scrapbooking, since you can find fun and creative ways to display all your family pictures and create something beautiful at the same time!
  • Anna wrote:

    Oct 20, 2004

    2009-11-18 3:01 PM

    Hi there, I do believe in the benefits of having a hobby. I make beaded jewellery in my spare time and I think it's a great way to focus my energies on something other than work. I'd recommend jewellery-making to Tiashell. It's fun (playing with beads makes you feel like a kid again) and it produces results. Results that you can wear and customize to complement your outfits. Anna
  • John Bath wrote:

    Feb 12, 2007

    2009-11-18 3:02 PM

    I agree with your article about having a hobby. My wife and I are retired and make mailboxes that look like little homes, this not only keeps our minds and hands active, but we make a few extra dollars. Check out our samples. http://ca.geocities.com/mailboxesunique/
  • Morene wrote:

    Feb 20, 2006

    2009-11-18 3:02 PM

    Bellydancing...will make you feel sexy, is great execise and a nice little escape from your life of details. Not to mention, your spouse will probably appreciate it too!
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